Scorpios are often misunderstood due to their closed and intense nature. However, if you can prove your trustworthiness to a Scorpio, you will find a lifelong and loyal friend. Scorpios are often deeply serious about their relationships, unfailingly loyal to those they love, and you’ll find few fiercer protectors. They make great friends and terrible enemies, so learning how to properly treat a Scorpio is probably in your best interest.
Table of Contents
- 1 Recognize typical characteristics of a Scorpio
- 2 Conversation with a Scorpio
- 2.1 Find out more about their interests.
- 2.2 Always give a Scorpio your full attention.
- 2.3 Be honest.
- 2.4 Tell him your stories.
- 2.5 Avoid telling a Scorpio everything about you at once or they will lose interest in you.
- 2.6 Refrain from overly personal questions.
- 2.7 Be aware that Scorpios are often quiet and withdrawn.
- 2.8 Share things you have in common with Scorpio.
- 2.9 Do things that show Scorpio that you care.
- 3 Dating a Scorpio
- 3.1 Wear dark colors, e.g.
- 3.2 Woo a Scorpio until you truly earn their trust.
- 3.3 Notice the light in her eyes.
- 3.4 Always be honest and don’t play with his feelings if you really want to win his heart.
- 3.5 Be prepared.
- 3.6 Respect his privacy.
- 3.7 Prepare for possible discussions about sex.
- 3.8 Look forward to hot nights.
- 4 Tips
- 5 Warnings
Recognize typical characteristics of a Scorpio
Treat them with love, respect and selflessness and they will be devoted to you. Scorpios are good friends. Give them 100 percent and they’ll pay you back with interest! Scorpios often have only a few, but very intense friendships because they need to connect with friends on the deepest and most intimate level. Flimsy and short-lived friendships do not interest a Scorpio. Once you are a part of their life, a Scorpio will never forget you.
Never make a Scorpio angry.
If you wrong a Scorpio, they may eventually forgive you – after making you suffer for a long time – but they will never forget. Cheating is met with an unrivaled thirst for vengeance. There’s a reason this zodiac sign’s symbol is Scorpio. The probability that you will win a fight against a scorpion is very small.
Accept the competitive nature of Scorpio.
Most Scorpios (not all) love to compete – and even more so, to win. Scorpios love sports or games where they can win against an opponent. When Scorpio has a goal in mind, they will do whatever it takes to achieve it. They never give up and tend to be successful in whatever they do.
Conversation with a Scorpio
Find out more about their interests.
Find out a little about their favorite topics so you can engage in a satisfying conversation with them. Realize that Scorpios are driven by a hunger for hidden truths and mysteries. This also often means that they are interested in the paranormal, the occult, conspiracy theories or unsolved mysteries.
Always give a Scorpio your full attention.
When a Scorpio watches you and looks deep into your eyes, they are giving you their full attention. Nothing else in this world exists for him at this moment and he listens to you with everything he has. When you spend time with him, he expects the same level of attention, so don’t spend too much time on your smartphone.
Scorpios appreciate anyone who is not afraid to be themselves. Scorpios have an intense and mysterious look. On the outside they appear calm, but in doing so they hide a deep sensitivity. They observe and analyze from afar, gathering information that further reinforces their powerful intuition. You may be able to fool a Scorpio in the short term, but most Scorpios can figure it all out. If a Scorpio finds out about your dishonesty, you might as well be dead to them.
Tell him your stories.
Scorpios would rather listen than talk about themselves. Tell a Scorpio something about yourself and they will most likely remember it later. In conversation, most Scorpios are fascinated by deep emotional truths, things that touch you at the deepest level. Scorpios love secrets. They detest small talk and idle talk.
Avoid telling a Scorpio everything about you at once or they will lose interest in you.
Scorpios are detectives by nature. Their inquisitive streak craves secrets to unravel. Create an aura of mystery around you by keeping some details about your life or past to yourself.
Refrain from overly personal questions.
Scorpios can be complicated and withdrawn. If you ask them too many questions, they’ll worry about your motives. Scorpios only reveal their hidden selves to people they truly trust, and often hold back even then.
Be aware that Scorpios are often quiet and withdrawn.
That doesn’t mean they aren’t interested in you. Scorpios rely on their intuition and observing skills rather than the unreliable testimonies of others. If a Scorpio willingly hangs out with you, trust that he appreciates your company, even if he doesn’t say so.
Scorpios, like many other people, love to discuss common interests. If you have the same taste in music or like the same TV show, then you should definitely bring this up in a conversation.
Do things that show Scorpio that you care.
Scorpios recognize the smallest of gestures and will appreciate them even if they don’t show it. For example, let’s say a Scorpio is dating a mutual friend of yours. Then you can give the other person a quick hug, but when you hug the Scorpio, give them a tight, warm hug. Give him sincere compliments to show your respect and affection. A Scorpio will know if your words come from the heart. If you give him a gift, it doesn’t have to be expensive, but it needs to be special and meaningful.
Dating a Scorpio
Wear dark colors, e.g.
Black, red, blue, purple to attract a Scorpio’s attention. Scorpios are drawn to dark and bold colors. Choose one of these colors that accentuates your eyes to catch Scorpio’s eye.
Woo a Scorpio until you truly earn their trust.
A Scorpio craves a meaningful and loving relationship. He craves connection on a deeply emotional, spiritual and physical level. However, this also means that it can take a long time for a Scorpio to really fall in love. Scorpios are the most loyal people you will ever meet if they feel you are worthy of their loyalty and love.
EXPERT COUNCIL Astrologer and medium Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with more than 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and the host of the popular astrology and counseling show Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted the digital astrology show Stargazing on TLC and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes. Jessica Lanyadoo Astrologer and Medium Our Expert Agrees: Scorpios can be more suspicious than other zodiac signs. Earn your Scorpio’s trust by showing up on date every time. Once you gain his trust, you have his loyalty and a friend for life.
Notice the light in her eyes.
You can find out a lot about a Scorpio just by looking deep into their eyes. He doesn’t have to say anything. When a Scorpio loves you, it shines like a light in their eyes.
Always be honest and don’t play with his feelings if you really want to win his heart.
Scorpios have a need for control that doesn’t let them tolerate games. You can evict them when they feel the situation is out of their control. Likewise, if you break a Scorpio’s trust, you will have a very difficult time winning it back.
A relationship with a Scorpio can be very complex and difficult to understand, just like the person themselves. A Scorpio demands and gives everything. He can be extremely jealous. The manipulative and controlling side of a Scorpio can also lead to many arguments and arguments.
Respect his privacy.
Don’t gossip about your relationship with your friends. Scorpios are very withdrawn and may see this as a breach of trust. It’s best to keep any personal information your Scorpio gives you about themselves to yourself. You should also refrain from posting anything about your Scorpio on social media unless they are aware and have given you permission to do so.
Prepare for possible discussions about sex.
Adult Scorpios are very attuned to their sexuality but tend to prioritize meaningful relationships over frequent conquests. They are not shy about talking about sex and you can talk to them about anything without shocking them.
Look forward to hot nights.
Not only do Scorpios love to discuss sex, they love to perform their master discipline. The intensity of the Scorpio is reflected there very clearly and makes him the best and most passionate lover of the zodiac signs. Your Scorpio will only be satisfied when you are exhausted and have been able to live out all your fantasies with him.
Show confidence. Scorpios respect strong, confident personalities. Scorpio is the zodiac sign for extremes and intensity. Scorpios are very deep, precise, intense people and there is always more to them than meets the eye. You present yourself as cool, indifferent and without emotion, but underneath lies a tremendous, extreme power, intense passion, a strong will and a stubborn drive. Scorpios are very inquisitive; so don’t be surprised if they ask a lot of questions. They try to dig deeper, understand things and assess the situation. It’s hard for a Scorpio to forgive when you’ve hurt or betrayed them, and it can take a while. Give him space and time and he will forgive you eventually.
Scorpios can forgive but will not forget! Never start an argument with a Scorpio for no reason! They are merciless with their enemies. Annoying or provoking him for fun will cost you dearly.